At the scene · 00:17
Talking to the other driver after a car accident
Keep the exchange calm and focus on documenting what happened, rather than debating fault at the scene.
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Keep the conversation brief and courteous
Jared’s point in this clip is to avoid making an immediate admission about fault while you are still dealing with the collision. He recommends keeping the exchange polite and focusing on gathering evidence.
Focus on information, not an argument
Exchange the necessary driver and insurance details and document what you can. This is a reminder to avoid speculation, not to withhold accurate information from responding officers or other people who need it.
Read the transcript
Transcript edited for clarity and readability. Watch the video for the original delivery.
What should you say to the other party if you’ve been in an accident? The honest truth: as little as possible. Don’t say, “I’m sorry.” Don’t say, “It was my fault.” Don’t admit to anything. Don’t say anything.
Just be as kind as possible, start taking pictures and get as much evidence. Get the police there.
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